Share your secrets with someone with ADHD
We have the skill to make a secret really secret!
If you have an irresistible urge or a compelling need to share your secret with someone, telling it to someone with ADHD can be the best thing you can do for you and your secret! People who carry ADHD in their minds and souls often struggle not only with memory but also with maintaining consistency in their thoughts and actions.
This makes them particularly suited for keeping secrets from being told since there's nothing to be frightened of if there's nothing to be remembered to be told!
Picture this: Your friend leans in and whispers, "I have a secret to tell you." You nod enthusiastically, eager to be the keeper of classified information. But as soon as they spill the beans, it's like your brain hits the delete button. Poof! The secret is gone, vanished into the abyss of a forgetful mind.
Why does it happen? Well, blame it on our ADHD brains, always buzzing with activity and constantly seeking stimulation, dopamine, and novelty. Keeping track of mundane details like who said what and when is like asking a goldfish to remember its shopping list. It's just not gonna happen!
But fear not, fellow ADHDers, for there is a silver lining to this forgetful fog. While we may struggle to keep secrets in our minds, we excel at something even better: honesty. That's right, folks, our inability to maintain a poker face means we're the most trustworthy pals around. No need to worry about us spilling the beans because chances are, we've already forgotten what you told us.
So, next time someone entrusts you with a juicy piece of gossip, embrace your inner truth-teller and let it rip. Who needs secrets anyway when you've got a knack for keeping it real? Let those secrets fly into your mind, and no one will ever have access to such classified intel, provided of course, we are the only ones chosen to be entrusted with such confidential information.
In conclusion, while remembering secrets may be a Herculean task for us ADHDers, it's nothing a good laugh and a dose of honesty can't fix. So let's accept our forgetful nature, share a few chuckles, and remember: sharing is caring, especially when it comes to secrets!